While we may not mean to, many modern parents tend to put gender restrictions on the household chores and tasks. It might be due to the fact that our parents raised us in this manner, or it may simply be because we expect different things from our sons and daughters.
Whatever the reason, people have come to wonder whether children’s chores should be gendered or neutral and, honestly, does it make a difference either way?
Boy’s Chores
Boys are traditionally responsible for scant few indoor chores. Besides taking out the trash and maybe helping care for the household pets, they at relegated to tend to the yard. This includes mowing, raking the leaves, and even walking the dog.
Girl’s Chores
Traditionally, girls bear the brunt of the indoor chores. They are expected to do dishes, help cook, babysit younger siblings, sweep, vacuum, dust, and other menial tasks. Outdoors they traditionally only have a place in the flower beds or vegetable plots.
If They Were Switched
With the stereotypical chores listed above, what would happen if the two were switched? What if girls were responsible for outdoor tasks and boys told to stay inside? Nothing… except that each would benefit from learning a wider range of skills. If we were honest, we know that ALL these tasks are necessary to survive in the adult world.
The Conclusion
The big thing here is that all children should be expected to contribute in all tasks they are reasonably able to. This should be determined based on age, size, and maturity – not gender.
Girls are perfectly capable of mowing the lawn and raking the leaves. They can even be taught mechanics or carpentry. Boys can (and should) learn how to help with younger siblings, cook, and do the dishes. They are just as able to sew or garden flowers as their sisters.
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